I’ve had this blog for many years and have utilized it under many different pretenses. Mostly therapeutic. I’ve always found comfort in the written word, whether it’s my own or someone else’s in one form or another. I’ve walked away from this blog time and time again, but I always come back. In the past, I would have some big epiphany that would inspire me to write everyday and finally “get my life together.” I would ride that motivation for about a week before it dies down and I go back to my usual hermit, depressed, distracted self. It’s funny looking back on some of the posts I’ve written that clearly define that “momentary motivation.” I seem like a completely different person but exactly the same simultaneously. That’s a weird thought. I started this blog in 2013, 7 years ago, and I’m utterly amazed at how different my life is from that time, despite my non changing antics.
I’m at a place in my life now that I’m figuring out who I am and what I really want. In order to do that, I have to look inward and heal myself from the inside, out. I have started getting my depression under control after a bad swing earlier this year. I’m working full time and I enjoy the job (the environment is toxic but I’m hoping that changes soon). We’re still living in NC and not regretting the move in any way. Our finances are under control and it’s no longer my biggest stress point. I feel comfortable in the mental space that I’m in to be able to start looking back and repair some damage from my childhood and resolve some trauma. It took a very long time to be able to get to this point and I’m happy it’s here.
I don’t plan on making any big declarations about writing every day or anything along those lines because I feel like I set myself up to fail. I don’t want to do that. I don’t write this blog for other people, I write it for me. If other people see and support me? Great! But it’s not my goal. Things are looking up and I’m excited. I’ll see ya when I see ya!
“The more things change, the more they stay the same.” – Alphonse Karr